NEWSLETTER - Summer 2010
CONTENTS:
Letter from the Executive Director- John de Graaf
Dear Take Back Your Time supporters:
I hope
you’re looking forward to summer as much as I am!
It’s been miserably wet and cold here in
Seattle
this spring so we are all anxious for some sun.
In spite of my remarkable inability to raise funds, Take
Back Your Time continues to limp along and to attract a
surprising amount of interest.
You’ll see some of that in this newsletter.
In the last few months I’ve been taken by the connection
between leisure time and happiness.
I learned that time balance is a key happiness “domain”
according to the country of Bhutan, which pioneered the Gross
National Happiness concept.
In our last newsletter, we ran
an interview with Michael Pennock of
Victoria, BC, who designed the happiness survey used in
Bhutan
and also in Victoria.
We are planning a similar “happiness partnership” in
Seattle
and we are receiving excellent cooperation from members of
Seattle City Council.
It’s something to think about for your city.
If you’re interested in what we’re doing email me at:
jodg@comcast.net.
A couple of weeks ago, I made
the case for public policies focused on more time in a speech to
the Northwest Progressive Institute, based in
Redmond, Washington.
The speech was published on the Web site Common Dreams,
thanks to board member Tom Turnipseed
and you can read it here:
www.commondreams.org/view/2010/06/10-11
I
hope to see some of you at the University of Iowa October 20-22
when Joe Robinson of Work To Live (and our board), Kristin Rowe-Finkbeiner of MomsRising, and board
members Ben Hunnicutt and Mike Maniates will be speaking at the
BALANCED LIVES: BEST POLICIES FOR THE NEW ECONOMY conference.
We’ll set aside a little time for a Take Back Your Time
discussion. For
more information, email me:
jodg@comcast.net.
And of course, no letter from me would be complete
without an ask for support.
We need your help to keep this organization going in hard
times. Please
donate at:

Or
send a check to CRESP/TAKE BACK YOUR TIME at:
Take Back Your Time, PO Box 9596, Seattle, WA 98109.
And if you’re talking about TAKE BACK YOUR TIME in
classes or using our materials, please let us know.
Being able to demonstrate that people find value in our
materials is the best way to convince funders to support us—they
look for measurable results.
PLEASE
LET US KNOW IF YOU FIND US HELPFUL!
And thanks to Alyssa Ballinger Johnson for her great work
in getting our videos up on YouTube.
Check out her letter below:
Leisurely yours!
John
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MORE TIME TALKS ON YOU TUBE—Alyssa Johnson Ballinger
If you have time, check out the
amazing videos on our
Take Back Your
Time YouTube channel.
I have been continually adding more, and I highly
recommend all of these speakers! I learned so much watching
them.
You can access the videos here:
www.timeday.org/takebackyourtime
The most recent posting is the
video of the Gross National Happiness (GNH) panel that was
presented at the 2010 Green Festival in Seattle, WA.
Karma Tshiteem came all the way from Bhutan to talk
about the Happiness Survey that was developed in his country,
and how we can apply it here.
Time balance is of course an important contributor
to happiness. GNH
surveys use indicators like time balance to bring a society’s
weak and strong points into focus, making it easy to find the
areas in a society where improvements will increase general well
being.
In addition to the recent Gross
National Happiness videos, many amazing talks are available from
the National Vacation Matters Summit, a project of Take Back
Your Time, held at Seattle University
in August 2009.
These talks cover a variety of topics centered around time
issues, particularly vacation time.
Also available is the footage of a talk by John de Graaf
at the 2009 Green Festival in Seattle, WA.
In this talk, John talks about the connection between
increased time off and environmental sustainability.
Thanks again to Todd Boyle, who filmed and
provided the footage for all of these videos!
Here’s a
summary of what’s currently available for viewing on
YouTube:
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VIDEOS FROM THE 2010 GREEN FESTIVAL IN SEATTLE
Gross National Happiness Seattle Panel with special guest Karma
Tshiteem
This panel on Gross National Happiness
(GNH) was convened at the annual Seattle Green Festival, June 6, 2010.
Speakers include activist authors Vicki Robin, Cecile Andrews
and John de Graaf, as well as Anjani Millet, founder of GNH
World, and special guest, Karma Tshiteem, director of the Gross
National Happiness Commission of Bhutan, the tiny Himalayan
country which first promoted the idea of GNH.
The event was part of a campaign to bring GNH measurements to Seattle, and challenge Seattle to be one of the happiest
cities! The first
step would be to conduct a city wide survey using multiple
questions to determine life satisfaction in such life dimensions
as: material
prosperity, economic security, time balance,
environmental quality, community vitality,
social connections, democratic governance, health, and
subjective well-being or mental health. For more information
visit
http://www.gnhworldproject.com/GNHWP/Welcome.html.
VIDEOS FROM THE 2009 NATIONAL VACATION
MATTERS SUMMIT IN SEATTLE
“Why Vacations Are Good for Business” – Joe Robinson
Joe Robinson is a work-life business
consultant and author of
WORK TO LIVE: the guide to getting a life.
In this talk, Joe discusses studies on the effects of
leisure on workers and business.
The conclusion is clear.
Sufficient vacation time makes workers happy and
healthier, increases productivity and creativity, and has the
potential to save businesses billions of dollars a year.
Here are some highlights:
“In the 1920s… what they found was that
employees did a better job when they were rested …John Patterson
of National Cash Register promoted vacations for his employees,
not out of the goodness of his heart, but because it actually
resulted in better productivity.” “The biggest supporters of
this [vacation] legislation should be business owners... but
most of them are caught up in what I call the burnout model;
just keep working until the paramedics arrive…and the science
totally does not support it.”
“Job stress costs American businesses
344 billion dollars a year….40% of turnover is due to job
stress. The remedy is so simple: more time off.”
"Heart Break: The Impact of Vacation Time on Coronary Health and
Workplace Stress" – Sarah Speck, MD
Sarah Speck, MD, is a Cardiologist at
Swedish medical center.
In addition to treating patients, Dr. Speck leads a group
of health professionals in educating people about living an
integrated, healthy lifestyle aimed at reducing the deleterious
health effects of bad habits and stress.
In her talk, Dr. Speck gives a physiology lesson on what
happens in our bodies when we experience stress.
The affects of stress range from shoulder aches and lack
of sleep, to depression, heart attacks and death.
Vacations give us a chance to make good lifestyles,
recover from stress, and practice active relaxation.
Some highlights from Dr. Speck’s talk:
“We all know stress is bad, but why is
that? …Cardiovascular disease is the leading cause of death in
this country… and unfortunately it’s not confined to the United
States…As we import not only our diet, not only our sedentary
lifestyle, but also our work ethic to places like Northern
Europe, and to China in particular, you can see that the
incidence of cardiovascular disease is increasing; in fact, it’s
only dwarfed in the African subcontinent because of the
prevalence of AIDs.”
“Practice active relaxation…You feel
calmer, you feel more tranquil, your immune function improves…
You stop having headaches, back aches, shoulder aches, you
improve your sexual function, and you have increased energy,
simply by practicing active relaxation. You improve your sleep,
you improve your productivity, you improve your impulse control:
there are less anger outbursts, you improve your memory and
concentration, you have quicker recovery of the mental imbalance
when you are confronted with stress…”
“Why I Support Paid Vacations as a Physician and a Small
Business Owner” – Arnold Pallay, MD
Arnold Pallay, MD, is the Medical Director
of Changebridge Medical Associates in
Montville,
New Jersey, past president of his
State Specialty and County Medical Societies and Clinical Asst.
Prof. of Family Medicine at
Robert
Wood Johnson
Medical
School.
In his talk at the Vacation Summit, Dr. Pallay discusses
his personal experience with vacation time as a family physician
and small business owner.
He emphasizes the importance of giving his employees time
off, and argues that it is something every business should make
a priority. Dr.
Pallay also relates his observations of time issues in his
patients. The benefits of vacation time for employees and
clients are obvious; all that remains is spreading the word.
“Reducing Stress and Depression with Vacation Time” – Peter
Fraenkel
Peter Fraenkel is Associate Professor of
Clinical and Environmental Psychology at The City College of the
City University of New York, and Founder and Director of the
Ackerman Institute for the Family's Center for Work and Family.
Peter Fraenkel discusses the connection
between mental health and work stress.
A spiral of depression can occur if there is no break
from work stress: the work stress creates relationship stress at
home, which in turn increases stress at work.
Vacation provides a chance for the parasympathetic
nervous system to recover and bring people out of depression.
"Vacation, Travel, and Life-Transforming Experiences" -- Suzy
Ross
Suzy Ross is a professor of Recreation Therapy
in the Department of Hospitality, Recreation and Tourism at San
Jose State University, California and leads transformative
travel to sacred sites. In this talk, Suzy discusses
transformative experiences, and research showing that travel can
be used to bring about major life change and aid the integration
of these transformative experiences (e.g. childbirth, marriage,
death, retirement, divorce) into daily life.
"Vacations and the Slow Life" -- Cecile Andrews
Cecile Andrews is the author of CIRCLE OF SIMPLICITY, SLOW IS
BEAUTIFUL, and LESS IS MORE. She teaches at
Antioch
University in Seattle,
Washington.
Cecile provides an inspirational template
of what “simple” life should look and feel like.
Not a life of deprivation, but a life that is content to
move slow and appreciate the things that truly add value to our
lives. She
emphasizes that vacations help keep alive the basic instinct for
leisure, reminding us there is more to life than work and the
bottom line.
"Distraction-Free Vacations" -- Mara Adelman
Mara
Adelman, an associate professor in the Department of
Communications at Seattle University.
New technologies have prompted an escalated state of
distraction and erosion of attention, even in such novel
experiences as travel. Mara discusses this in her talk, asking:
is there any way out?
"The Economic Crisis as
an Opportunity to Re-think What Matters" -- Cathy O'Keefe
Cathy O'Keefe teaches leisure and
recreation at the University of South Alabama in Mobile. She is a member of the Take Back Your
Time board of directors.
Cathy focuses on the connection between
vacations and spirituality.
To "vacate" means to empty something so that something
more sublime and beautiful can emerge. Vacations allow us to be
present in wonder, awe, creativity, rest, freedom, growth and
renewal.
VIDEOS FROM THE 2009 GREEN FESTIVAL IN
SEATTLE
“Time, Vacations, and Sustainability” – John de Graaf
John de Graaf is the director of Take Back
Your Time. John is also
the author of Affluenza: The All Consuming Academic, the
producer of several documentary films, and is constantly working
with politicians and leaders to improve time balance in our
society.
“To put it simply, my view is that to
become sustainable on this finite planet we must begin
immediately to trade productivity increases for time instead of
stuff.”
The pressure to choose “the goods life”
over “the good life” is creating havoc in so many aspects of our
lives. We are
increasingly unhealthy, unhappy, and unaware.
Our politicians don’t even have time to read the bills
they are passing in Congress.
John drives these points home with statistics and studies
from all different angles: health, society, economics, politics,
and environmentalism. After
going over the history of labor in the
US
and in other parts of the world, John discusses legislation that
has been introduced at the State and Federal level, and why we
should support it.
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FROM OUR BOARD MEMBERS:
Two
of our board members, Joe Robinson and Mike Maniates, have new
books coming out:
From Joe Robinson:
I hope you’ve got some great vacation plans
ahead this summer. We all have to make sure that we live life or
it gets away from us. I’ve just written a book on how we can
keep our lives engaged and exhilarated all year. It’s called
Don’t Miss Your Life, and it comes out Nov. 1. I hope
you’ll check it out (and maybe even pre-order it). We could
really move the national conversation on getting back time for
our lives.
I was seeing a lot of research pointing to
the fact that the place where we are at our happiest is when we
are involved in engaging leisure activities—in other words, in
the taboo act of play. The more active leisure life you have,
the higher your life satisfaction. The book draws on the latest
research in positive and social psychology to offer a roadmap to
life satisfaction through active leisure. I show why there’s no
success like recess—for your body, mind, social connection, your
core needs, and even your work. There’s some amazing science
tying this altogether. But you can’t get in the game of life
unless you have skills none of us are ever taught—leisure
skills. The work mindset of production can’t play. You can’t
play hopscotch with a flow chart. I show that we need the
aptitudes and traits of life intelligence— the ability to
develop passions, choose experiences over stuff, and go with
engagement over comfort, and fun for its own sake over results.
That’s where you have the most gratifying times of your life.
That’s where people come together in community and live their
best lives. I jump in with a bunch of fanatic dragon boat
paddlers, salsa dancers, kickball players and a host of other
life enthusiasts along the way. The life satisfaction
we’re looking for is where we left it: at recess.
It’s a fun ride. I hope you’ll join me and spread the
word.
I’ll be writing and blogging a lot about
this topic. Join the conversation with me at my Facebook page:
(http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000499577821)
and on Twitter at
twitter.com/WorkLifeSkills.
Thanks for your support. Have a great summer!
Mike Maniates, a
professor at Allegheny College in Pennsylvania, and another
board member, has also written a new book, called THE
ENVIRONMENTAL POLITICS OF SACRIFICE: http://www.amazon.com/Environmental-Politics-Sacrifice-Michael-Maniates/dp/0262514362/ref=tmm_pap_title_0
Chapter
thirteen is called:
Struggling with Sacrifice:
Take Back Your Time and Right2Vacation.org.
It offers our
organization as an in-depth case study of an effort to reduce
consumerism by calling attention to the sacrifice of time we
make to keep the consumer culture going strong. I (John) learned
a lot from the chapter and recommend the book highly.
Greg Wright proposes that we make a calendar—would
anyone like to help him?
Email me at
jodg@comcast.net
if you want to volunteer.
From Greg: An online or print
calendar promulgated by TBYT might utilize the fact that there
are about as many "advanced" countries as there are days in a
month (the 27 EU nations plus Canada, Australia, New Zealand,
Japan, South Korea, Singapore... ), and feature a policy tidbit
about most of these countries -- and the consistently negative
comparison with the U.S. -- in each of the days of the month, in
twelve categories of comparison, such as Paid Leave for Mothers,
Paid Leave for Fathers, Paid Sick Leave, Paid Vacation Leave,
Maximum Workweek, Family Leave, Part-Time Work Policies,
etcetera. Some kind of calendar product would be a natural
manifestation of an organization with Time in its name.
Greg
also suggests we bring commuting into our work-time discussion.
The considerable part of
working time for many Americans that is commuting
remains stubbornly unremarked on in our STW discussions.
Talk about using up the environment (with carbon emissions) and
time (for too many Americans, on five days a week)!
Commuting must be brought into the work /
time / environment discussion. Here are some reasons and
my conclusions about how to deal with it, from an article, "More
Time, Less Carbon"):
Any region or country where job commuting
is auto-intensive and long-distance could realize especially
great reductions in energy use and greenhouse gas emissions by
reducing commuting. U.S./st1:place> workers are
the most car-intensive commuters in the world, 88 percent of
them getting to work by automobile -- with 77 percent driving
solo.
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The U.S. Census Bureau in the past
decade dubbed 3.4 million American workers "extreme commuters":
commuters who drive more than 90 minutes to, and from, work (it
used to be defined as an hour). At least two percent of
Americans are waking up to these commutes of 90 minutes or more
one way. Not surprisingly, most of these workers live near
major metropolitan centers; New York, New Jersey,
Maryland, California, and Washington, D.C.,
have the most workers with extreme commutes. As the
prevalence of these extreme commuters continues to increase (it
skyrocketed 95 percent in the U.S. between 1990 and the late
'00s), albeit at a lower rate since the global recession, and as
highly polluting stop-and-go traffic on urban roadways also
increases, the personal, environmental, and social benefits of
the widescale adoption of Four-Day Workweeks will also increase.
The number of workers with commutes lasting
more than an hour grew by almost 50% between 1990 and 2000.
According to the 2000 U.S. Census, the commuting miles driven by
Americans went up by 15 percent during the 1990s and rose
even further during this first decade of the new century
(although probably dropping since the recession started).
Meanwhile, the number of Americans who walk or bicycle to work
is about four percent -- compared to Europe's
20 percent!
All of this data supports the environmental
-- and social -- benefits of moving as many American workers as
possible onto a Four-Day Workweek -- one that is less than 40
hours in length, so the individual days are less than ten hours
each. Reducing the number of hours that define the
standard full-time American workweek would make it easier for
the U.S. to widely adopt the Four-Day Workweek -- for example,
in four nine-hours a week (a total of 36 hours) or even four
eight-hour days (a total of 32 hours).
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NO MOVEMENT ON VACATION BILL SAYS ALAN GRAYSON
I
requested information from Congressman Grayson on the current
status of the vacation bill. Here’s his reply:
Dear John:
Thanks for your note. There hasn’t been any
movement on the Act since I testified about it before the Labor
and Education Committee. I’ve mentioned it in my speeches,
but the CBS report was the first significant coverage in months.
Sooner or later, the vacation bill will move up on the
progressive agenda.
Sincerely,
Alan Grayson
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MEET, PLAN, GO—Sherry Ott
Here’s an interesting idea from Take Back Your Time member
Sherry Ott. We look forward to participating in these events.
We are getting busier and
busier with Meet Plan Go and currently have secured 9 locations
(including Seattle!) and are working
on 4 more currently. Interest is growing every week, so we are
going in the right direction. I wanted to provide a little
blurb for your upcoming newsletter about Meet Plan Go just to
introduce your audience to what our concept is regarding
extended travel and career breaks.
Despite
being common in many countries such as Australia and the UK, career
breaks, life sabbaticals, "gap years" and other forms of
extended travel are not currently an American birthright, but
the Founders of
Briefcase to Backpack (link to
http://www.briefcasetobackpack.com) are on a mission to
change that. Briefcase to Backpack is
a
website providing inspiration and travel advice to working
Americans longing to take a career break to explore the world.
As Americans, we are up against many obstacles when it comes to
career breaks such as lack of time off, work ethic, and social
pressures. On
September 14th nationwide,
they will be hosting a night of free Meet, Plan, Go! events: http://www.meetplango.com
with travel experts in major cities across the country. To
learn more about the events and locations, visit their website
at
www.MeetPlanGo.com
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NEW REPORT ON THE STATE OF US SOCIETY—Riane Eisler
There’s a lot of activity going on these days around creating
new national indicators as an alternative to the gross domestic
product. Here is one
idea that is gaining real steam.
CPS
ANNOUNCES GROUNDBREAKING REPORT ENDORSED BY NATIONAL COALITION
REPRESENTING 30 MILLION CITIZENS
When GDP (Gross
Domestic Product) keeps rising while joblessness is dangerously
high and childcare and educational budgets are slashed, it is
clear that we urgently need new measurements that give policy
makers and the public a more accurate picture of the true
economic health of our nation and its citizens.
A wide-ranging
coalition of organizations and individuals representing 30
million citizens, led by The
Center for Partnership Studies
(CPS), is urging the Obama Administration and Congress to adopt
the recommendations of the just released Urban Institute's
report,
The State of Society: Measuring
Economic Success and Human Well-Being.
Commissioned by
CPS, The State of Society report focuses on indicators that go
beyond GDP to include key factors in a nation's quality of life
and economic success, including health, education, human rights,
environmental sustainability, workplace fairness, and poverty
levels. It pays special attention to the still largely ignored,
but bellwether status of the majority of the population: women
and children.
The coalition
includes the National Organization for Women, the National
Education Association, the National Associations of Mothers'
Centers, True Child, Green America, United Methodist Church, the
Women's Funding Network, the NoVo Foundation, MomsRising, the
National Council of Women's Organizations, Workforce, Inc. and
leaders such as CEO Jeffrey Hollender of Seventh Generation and
former U. S. Senator and Ambassador Carol Moseley Braun.
Since Congress
has already passed a mandate for a Key National Indicator System
as part of the recently adopted health care reform bill (Section
5605 of P.L. 111-148), the Coalition especially urges
that representatives of marginalized segments of the population,
especially women, children, and minorities, be consulted in
determining which new measurements will be developed and used.
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SHARED CARE—Jessica De Groot, Third Path Institute
Jessica De Groot at the Third Path Institute in
Philadelphia sends this idea for reducing
the time burden on families.
From Jessica: The mission of
the Third Path Institute is to assist individuals, families and
organizations in finding new ways to redesign work to create
time for family, community and other life priorities. Long-term
our goal is to organize individuals, families and communities to
influence larger systemic change - both within organizations and
at the public policy level. Together with other like-minded
people, we will shape a future where no person is required to
choose between work and children, work and an aging parent, work
and community involvement, or work and some other life
interest. Instead, people will be able to follow a "third
path," one that allows them to integrate work with other life
priorities.
Reading our mission statement, I can see why
people have been encouraging me to get in touch with you!
Below is a story we sent out years ago that does a great job
explaining Shared Care and how both parents learn how to "take
back their time" so they can have more time and energy to
care for their children.
ANITA AND BRAD - WEAVING
FAMILY AND WORK FOR TWO DECADES
Every Fourth of July
Anita and Brad spend time planning for the upcoming year and
thinking about their 5 and 10 year goals. Although they
couldn’t have imagined it when Kelly, their first child, was a
baby, their five-year goals now include imagining a life where
Kelly (and then two years after that, Russ) leaves for college.
Like most parents, Anita and Brad wondered when their
first child was born, how can we both stay involved with our
work and take great care of our family? They had always talked
about not wanting the kids to be in “40 hours of child care a
week,” however, it was unclear to either of them exactly how
they were going to make this happen. Now, 13 years into their
Shared Care solution, Anita and Brad can really see how sharing
care was one of the best ways for each of them to stay engaged
at work while also taking advantage of the time when children
were young to create significant time for family.
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Initially, the couple solved their work
family dilemma by having Brad be the stay-at-home parent.
“When we first started it made sense for Brad to be at home
because I made more money than he did.” In part this was
because shortly before Kelly’s birth, Brad had lost his job, so
this seemed like the logical solution for the family.
After taking the summer off, Anita returned to full time work as
a teacher in a private school when Kelly was 3 months old.
When Brad reflects on that first year of involvement he
notes how it set a strong foundation to build on. “I am
just better at saying ‘here let me hold you’ when the kids get
hurt; rather than correcting them for running. Being there
and accepting them is extremely important. I learned this
lesson well when they were babies.” However, he also
adds, “it was fairly noteworthy that I was a stay-at-home dad.
I was sometimes singled out due to my intense relationship with
the kids. People used to comment when I was grocery
shopping with the kids during a weekday – sometimes in a good
way, sometimes not. In either case I didn’t appreciate the
notoriety. ”
Shifting to Shared Care
When
Kelly was about 16 months old, and just before the birth of
their second child, the couple put their Shared Care plan in
place. Anita re-negotiated her position so that she could
work 60% time, and Brad began working 24 hours a week as a
landscaper. Mondays, Tuesdays and Thursdays, Kelly was
cared for at a family day care provider. Wednesdays
and Fridays, Brad cared for Kelly in the mornings and then Anita
took over her care in the afternoons.
They
continued with this arrangement after the birth of their second
child. Anita took a six-month leave with baby Russ, and
then returned to her part time position. Around this time,
Brad switched jobs and began working a few more hours a week as
a furniture builder. While the parents were at work, Kelly
attended pre-school, and Anita organized an informal childcare
arrangement for Russ with some of the other parents who had
children at her workplace. Anita and Brad continued to
share care on Wednesdays and Fridays.
They both
acknowledged how their Shared Care plan allowed each parent to
play to his or her strengths. “Anita’s strength is
scheduling, whereas mine is flexibility. I do more fun,
spontaneous activities with the children.” Anita agreed,
“I do all the planning. I create how the schedule has to
work, including solutions for Brad.”
They also could
sense some economic impact from their decision. “We
definitely accepted a life of simplicity,” Brad said.
However, in many ways this lifestyle choice suited them.
Anita remarked, “I think it has been better for us not to have
everything. My parents’ materialism made me want to not
raise my kids in a world where things are more important than
people. The time children are young is not very long: it is
worth the sacrifice.”
Just as is the case for all
families, during this period their kids (as they seem to do)
continued to grow and get older. This natural
developmental shift brought new changes. Kelly now
attended Kindergarten and Russ attended pre-school – freeing up
both parents to work almost full days on Wednesdays and Fridays.
Over the next 5 years Anita increased her workload to an 80%
schedule, and then again to a 90% schedule.
While
Anita increased her workload, Brad started his own construction
business, allowing him a flexible schedule that ultimately lead
to his present day employment – working 35 hours a week as a
museum carpenter. While their parents were working, the
children attended school and then after school care Mondays,
Tuesdays, and Thursdays. On Wednesdays, Brad continued to
be the primary parent in charge after school, and Anita
continued her involvement with the children on Fridays.
Reaping the Rewards at Work
Both careers evolved throughout this time,
yet in different ways. Anita continued to pursue her
teaching career, slowly increasing her workload as the children
became more independent. Then last year, when she sensed
that her family was ready, she made a big change at work.
Ready to take on new challenges, Anita began teaching part time
at a new school. Shortly after the switch she was singled
out to take the lead on a special project. She is now
working full-time for significantly more money, but still spends
Fridays after school focused on family.
Following a
pattern that allowed him to work both creatively and physically,
Brad changed positions over time, ultimately leading to the job
that he now has no intention of leaving – a job he has also been
promoted in, and one that he finds deeply satisfying. “I
like being a member of a team … at work everyone has to overcome
their own egos, and we get the show up together.”
Throughout the years, each of them can also see how
their involvement at home has had many benefits at work.
“I am a much better teacher when talking with parents and
helping them to support their children now that I am a parent,”
says Anita. Brad describes one of the transferable skills
he has learned as, “the patience factor. I have a guy at
work that I supervise who is just like a kid. He wants
instant praise for good work. He wants to skip the hard
parts and move on to the fun parts immediately. Now I am
better at knowing when to talk with him about the situation.”
More importantly is the long-term effect Shared Care has had
at home. “We are very close. We are way more
emotionally connected,” says Brad. “If one of us is
grumpy, everyone knows. If someone is really overwhelmed,
we can count on each other. We are all more sensitive that
everyone gets overwhelmed at times, and everyone needs a little
hand.”
Building a Strong Foundation at Home
Looking back Anita and Brad can see that they wouldn’t have
wanted to set up their lives any other way. “My kids know
that we are there. They have inner security. They are
connected, secure, and trusting kids.” Anita continues, “I
also feel like I’ve been a great role model for my kids, where
the meaning of my life isn’t them. That does not mean my
kids don’t bring great meaning to my life; I like that they see
me as someone who takes pride in my work
and pride in my
family.”
Five years from now when Kelly leaves home, and
Anita and Brad once again revisit their 5 and 10 year goals,
they have a lot to be proud of. Together they have crafted
a work-family solution where they have lived and modeled a way
of life that has kept them both moving forward in their careers
while also continuously prioritizing family.
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MOTHER’S DAY REPORT ON WORKING WOMEN—Marilyn Watkins
Marilyn Watkins, with the wonderful Economic Policy Institute in
Seattle
has been working hard on paid family leave and paid sick days.
She sends this message:
In honor of Mother’s Day, we have issued a
new brief on Washington working women, highlighting the
continued disparity in earnings and concluding that women will
not make further gains toward equality until workplace standards
catch up with the needs of today’s families. It also includes
brief stories illustrating the need for paid family leave and
paid sick days, featuring our coalition friends Selena, Megan,
and Sharon.
http://www.eoionline.org/state_economy/reports/WashingtonWorkingWomen-May2010.pdf
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SIERRA CLUB RESOLUTION ON ENERGY CONSUMPTION AND WORK-TIME—Dan Aronson
TAKE
BACK YOUR TIME activist Dan Aronson has been trying to get his
local Sierra Club chapter to pay more attention to time issue
and the connection between energy issues and time issues.
Here’s what he has accomplished:
The resolution below was passed by the Raritan Valley
group of Sierra Club-NJ. If you are a Sierra Club member,
would you consider bringing it to your group or chapter; the
resolution quotes John Muir's statement that we work too much
and rest too little. (To make it relevant to your chapter,
it would be necessary to change the references to New Jersey -- and since
our new governor has temporarily cut incentives for energy
upgrades, we might have to edit the resolution as well.)
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RESOLUTION SUPPORTING THE EMINENTLY CONVENIENT TRUTH CAMPAIGN
WHEREAS, creating markets for transit alternatives would enable
households to overcome the burden of total automobile
dependence;
WHEREAS, feasible methods for creating such markets do exist,
including -- but not limited to -- pay-per-mile auto insurance;
authorizing drivers of buses and vans to utilize devices that
make red lights turn green; charging, or charging more for
parking;
WHEREAS, creating markets for transit alternatives would induce
entrepreneurs to offer convenient services, one example being a
demand-responsive van service that would make possible effective
transit in the suburbs;
WHEREAS, effective transit, by reducing congestion, would
improve transportation for all (including drivers of
single-occupancy-vehicles);
WHEREAS, effective transit alternatives would render portions of
parking lots unnecessary, making it possible to build housing on
already paved land -- the increase in supply of which would
reduce prices for future buyers;
WHEREAS, building housing on already paved land would make it
possible for New Jersey's workers to live closer to their place
of employment, thereby eliminating the need to endure long
commutes;
WHEREAS, it is economical to build new housing in an
energy-efficient manner;
WHEREAS, New Jersey is offering
the strongest financial incentives in the country for energy
upgrades in existing buildings;
WHEREAS, energy efficiency and low-carbon energy offer greater
comfort while reducing annual utility bills;
WHEREAS, reductions in housing, automobile and utility costs
would make it more viable to pursue work time reduction;
WHEREAS, John Muir himself stated, "we work too much and rest
too little,” and the adoption of these concepts would address
this concern;
Now, Therefore Be It Resolved:
- The Raritan Valley Group of New Jersey
Chapter of the Sierra Club hereby declares "the eminently
convenient truth" that advances in energy efficiency and
low-carbon energy would enable Americans to improve quality
of life while reducing costs and work time.
- That the Group supports press
releases, press conferences and a broad public awareness
campaign to raise awareness of these convenient truths to
the people of New Jersey.
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TIME FOR VOLUNTARY SIMPLICITY — Sherry L. Ackerman
Sherry Ackerman has just written a book on simple and
sustainable living.
The Chinese pictograph for
"busy" is composed of two characters: heart and killing. When I
first learned this, I thought about all of the people who are
"too busy" to return a phone call; the many children who get
money instead of their parents’ time; and the many times that
any of us has an opportunity to touch someone’s life with
kindness but we are "too busy". Life is moving way too fast:
more and more people are becoming stuck in the stress of excess,
which begins with possession overload and ends in time famine.
It starts with choosing "stuff" over time.
Glossy,
multi-colored advertisements for sleep products are regularly
found in most major magazines. People just aren’t sleeping like
their grandparents did. Some even claim that they don’t have
time to sleep—that they are "too busy". The sale of pre-packaged
and take-out foods has increased as people claim to be "too
busy" to prepare food at home. In 1900, the typical American
household spent six hours a day in food prep and cleanup. Last
year, Americans averaged 31 minutes a day. We have been
culturally conditioned to believe that 'time is money'.
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The philosopher Heidegger explored the
meaning of being as defined by time. He thought that an analysis
of time gave us insight into our nature, our being. Can
something as important as our nature, our very being, be defined
by money? Is our life measurable in dollars and cents? One
answer to these questions is offered by voluntary simplicity.
Voluntary simplicity describes a process whereby people opt out
of the harried life of modern day living, and choose to live a
more frugal, simple life. Frugality in this sense doesn’t mean
poverty. Rather, it means getting good value for every minute of
your life energy and from everything you have the use of. And,
it frees up time!
Frugal is characterized by, or
reflective of, economy in the expenditure of resources.
Simplicity means making time for yourself in a hectic world. You
clear out what is superfluous and make room for that which is
meaningful. As the pace of modern day life has taken its toll on
people and we have all become increasingly concerned about
over-consumption of earth resources, the movement toward
voluntary simplicity has grown. Voluntary simplicity comes from
within. It is a social movement that invites a more sustainable
and spiritually connected existence. Voluntary simplicity is a
matter of personal responsibility and conscious awareness of how
we live on the planet. It means identifying the difference
between our needs and our wants. Needs are those things that are
necessary for our survival and actualization. Wants are all the
other things we desire and to a large extent are driven by media
advertising. Simplicity is the identifiable difference between
needs and wants.
As we invite meaning into our lives, we
start to become aware of the shallowness of a life based on
materialism and consumerism. We become conscious of how much
energy it takes just to keep up with the daily 'rat race'. We
discover that getting a good job, getting married, having
children, and securing a mortgage with a two-car garage still
leaves us feeling incomplete. Without a sense of a deeper,
spiritual meaning, we have a 'hole in our soul'. Some try to
fill the hole with more "stuff"—consuming more and more and
feeling less and less satisfied. 'Consume' by definition means
to do away with completely; to destroy; to spend wastefully and
squander – to use up.
Simplicity is a counter-direction:
a more viable correction. In choosing simplicity, we can
remember that we are spiritual beings, in a physical body,
having a human experience. The journey toward a more simple and
sustainable lifestyle begins by examining our expectations and
assumptions, including the belief systems that drive us to live
our lives in fast-forward, with the pedal to the metal.
Down-shifting--being content with less "stuff" and slowing
down—helps us take back our time. Moving out of the
mindset of a consumer and into that of a citizen builds strong
community ties. So, the next time that we are out and about,
let’s not rush past each other on the street like Mad Hatters,
trying to "beat time". Let’s step out of the fast lane--smile
and say hello, taking the time to invest in building social
sustainability.
Sherry L. Ackerman, Ph.D., is professor of philosophy at College
of the Siskiyous, in Northern California. She has recently completed a book on
simple, sustainable living,
The Good Life:
Reflections on a Post-Consumer Society which will be
available by Fall 2010. For more information, see
www.sherryackerman.com
and “Follow Me on Twitter”!
I
blog at:
http://postconsumersociety.blogspot.com
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WHOLISTIC SIMPLICITY—Gene Sagar
Simplicity is popular with our
supporters. We
received two essays on the subject for this issue.
Here is the second one.
The
words "simple" and "simplicity" are currently undergoing a
variety of uses and misuses. The first time I saw Real
Simple magazine on the newsstand I snatched it up, expecting
informative articles about how to escape the frenetic complexity
and materialism of our culture. But far and away the most
powerful impact of the magazine came from the slick, full page
ads which promoted anything but simplicity. Half of the
issue promoted runaway materialism -- 86 of the 171 pages; I
counted them in disbelief. A prime example is the Mercedes
ad: "Here's How You'll Get Your Thrills. The 302
horsepower V-8 engine can 'hyperspace' you from zero to sixty in
6.1 seconds." Real Simple usurps the appeal of
the word "simple" and promotes its opposite.
Say
"simplicity" and many people think of a return to a "primitive"
lifestyle, a carrying-water-and-chopping-wood situation.
Or perhaps the life of a monk who has only his habit and a soup
bowl. Some Americans think of Henry Thoreau and take
"simplicity" to mean withdrawal from civilization. More
contemporary ideas of simplicity are associated with financial
independence, as in the book Your Money or Your Life by
Vicki Robin
and Joe Dominguez. Popular author Duane Elgin has
published very engaging books about a "simple life" which
includes volunteering, environmental activism, and participation
in civic affairs. He says the definition of simplicity is
an individual matter. The Simple Living Network also
implies a relativism, saying "there are as many definitions of
simplicity as there are individuals." Some see the simple
life as a withdrawal; others see it as a kind of engagement.
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Relativism
confuses the issues and counters genuine attempts to find a
general concept that will pass muster in today's world. I
recommend here a concept and a practice -- wholistic simplicity
-- which cuts through the confusion. I believe it is
simplicity come-of-age because it integrates simplicity with
concerns about the environment and justice.
Writers on
simplicity cannot avoid the irony when readers raise the
question: why do articles on simplicity get so complicated?
It is a fair question, and it has a fair answer: sorting
through the confused concepts of simplicity can be a
complicated, messy business. But once we have the right
concept, the practice is a simple matter.
Withdrawal vs. Engagement
Anyone who has
tried to practice simplicity has encountered a dilemma: on
the one hand, we desperately need to drop out of the rat race
and drop out of the hyperactivity of our culture; on the other
hand, we want the satisfaction that comes from engaging others
and helping to direct our society in the right direction.
We would like to help create a greener, more just world for
ourselves and for our children.
The original or
basic concept of the simple life is to slow down, reduce
consumption, and enjoy the release from all the hassle and
stress. Withdrawal from the workings of our society is a
blessed relief; "sweet sister simplicity," as St. Francis called
it, allows time for self examination and a measure of inner
peace. Thoreau expressed it poignantly in his journal:
"I am prepared to let this bustling nineteenth century pass me
by." And as for improving the world, he wrote, "I came
into this world not chiefly to make it a better place, but to
live in it, be it good or bad."
Withdrawal has
many advantages, and I am sometimes very attracted to it.
But it comes at a terrible cost. Withdrawal is morally
bankrupt. If I don't pitch in and help, I make others
carry more of the burden. And even life in a hermitage on
a pond can be ruined by pollution, logging, or urban sprawl.
As for politics, no one is apolitical. If I chose to make
no political impact, I am choosing to affirm the political
choices others are making. The Trappist monk Thomas Merton
used to say he was a "guilty bystander," and the term is
revealing. Withdrawal is a moral cop out; a sensitive
person cannot embrace it. Thoreau himself eventually
engaged his contemporaries concerning slavery and other social
issues.
The other pole of
the dilemma -- engaged simplicity -- drops out of the race for
material status and uses the new-found time and energy to
improve the world, especially the environment. Like
withdrawal-simplicity, engaged-simplicity means less
consumption, so it is already green; but engagement means more
that this. It includes actions like boycotting ungreen
companies, recycling, and working with environmental
organizations. Prominent authors like Duane Elgin and Lisa
Newton see engaged-simplicity as including participation in
civic affairs to create a greener community.
No one can fault
the moral zeal of engaged simplicity. But does such a
lifestyle become too complicated? As a form of simplicity,
it is liable to self-destruct. The race for a seat on the
City Council is not the proverbial materialistic rat race, but
it is a race nonetheless. So is the race to save the rain
forests, the whales, the polar bears. And researching the
issues about green and ungreen corporations is no simple matter.
Engaged simplicity can get stressful and complicated very
quickly.
One of my
inveterate greeny friends suggests that engagement can avoid
undue stress by taking on only one major project. However,
the mind does not deal with such matters mathematically.
For example, if I am stressed about a single engaged project, my
mind creates turbulence about it 24-7. The intensity and
duration of the disturbance is not correlated to the number of
concerns. To put it simply: engagement comes at the cost
of inner peace. Simplicity is supposed to bring us relief
and inner calm, but engaged simplicity can readily backfire on
this score.
Wholistic Simplicity
If
withdrawal-simplicity is a moral cop out, and engaged-simplicity
self destructs, what is wholistic-simplicity? The term wholism
here refers to the view that the entire world is one
interconnected and interdependent whole. This means that
withdrawal is impossible; the world is everybody's backyard.
Wholistic simplicity rejects withdrawal and engages others to
improve the world. We will see how it avoids self
destruction in this process.
Seeing the world
as one means seeing nature and human society as partners.
Bustling big cities are not a cancer which necessarily taints
the pristine purity of wilderness. The simplicity movement
and the environmental movement have sometimes been plagued by
the sense that human culture is essentially in violation of the
ecosystem. But it is all nature -- wild nature and human
nature, even with our technology. Take computers as an
example; we need them to monitor our use of technology, to
watchdog the big corporations, and to communicate with others to
create a greener and more just world. Wholistic simplicity uses
technology insofar as it really improves the world. For any
piece of technology, the burden of proof comes to this: on
balance, does it make the world greener and more just?
Clearly many of our vehicles and gadgets fail on this standard.
Wholistic
simplicity calls for a slow pace, low consumption lifestyle.
It can accommodate an occasional period of rapid and intense
activity, but not the regular hyperactivity that has become the
American way. When it comes to consumption: the
"first world" squanders resources because we want so
much, having forgotten what we really need. In
addition to the basics, a wholistic approach opts for simple
pleasures such as the company of family and friends, gardening,
hiking, and local entertainers.
Simplicity is
often thought to follow the "easy way" and the "less expensive
way," but these are partial truths. My son calls it a
drag, but we hang our clothes outdoors on lines instead of using
an electric dryer (Southern California
weather cooperates most of the year.) As for expenses,
sometimes a more expensive product is greener: organic
food is greener and healthier. Contributing to
environmental organizations and boycotting ungreen businesses
can complicate our lives. Sometimes green practice even
gets involved in pitched battles with big corporation, including
massive information campaigns, court cases and crucial
deadlines.
With these
concerns and efforts, will we not lose our inner simplicity and
get lost in scurry and worry? The answer to this is a
spiritual technique called non-attachment. It subverts the
tendency of the mind to create turbulence when faced with
challenges. Non-attachment heals fragmentation and yields
a sense of oneness. It is a time-honored method found in
all the world religions, but one need not be religious to use it
effectively.
The main cause of
stress is "attachment" -- the mental inclination to cling or
attach to an activity or goal. When the going gets tough
or our success is threatened, we "inevitably" stress out. The
stress continues in our mind even when we are not actively
working on the project. In this way attachments erode our
health and disrupt our concentration. Our discernment is
inhibited, and we actually became less effective in pursuing the
project we are attached to!
But this process
is not inevitable. We can become non-attached to our
project by understanding what attachment is. Commitment to
a goal is not equivalent to attachment. Attachment is an
extra mental/emotional hook. Commitment to a project is
the motivation to pursue it because it is right; it does not
cling or clutch. Attachment causes stress, and it is a
drain on our body and mind. It makes us lose our capacity
for balanced judgments. Once we see clearly (without
denial or distraction) what an attachment is, we can let it
pass. We simply look at it; we do not fight it or deny it.
Once an attachment is seen in its true colors, we see it
is a self-wrought hindrance and only a hindrance. Seen in
its true colors, it begins to fade and then disappear.
In sum, and
when it comes right down to day to day practice, I believe
wholistic simplicity is most effective in its sense of oneness
and its non-attachment. The resulting inner peace is the
space where we can make calm discernments. We can see our
way clear to work for a better world without losing our soul.
Gene C. Sager is a professor of Philosophy at Palomar College in
California
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TIME AND TAKE BACK YOUR TIME IN THE NEWS
A couple of weekends ago, CBS Sunday
Morning ran a great story called “Our No Vacation Nation”.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lZv3HZvoFTg
Juliet Schor has written a great new book called PLENITUDE
about creating a less-consumptive society with more time for
life. She spoke
about it recently in Seattle.
Video thanks to
Todd Boyle:
http://vimeo.com/12034640
Juliet is at
Boston
College and taught 17
years at Harvard, and has written numerous
books including a
best-seller, THE OVERWORKED AMERICAN, in 1992.
See her
website
http://www2.bc.edu/~schorj/
If you want to broadcast this or need a DVD for some
reason let me know--Todd Boyle
public intellectual and misanthrope (425) 827-3107, 9745 128th Avenue NE, Kirkland
WA 98033-5286
Wanda
Urbanska, host of the PBS series SIMPLE LIVING WITH WANDA
URBANSKA has written an excellent new book.
TAKE BACK YOUR TIME
is mentioned prominently.
Here is an interview with her from
USA
TODAY.
Wanda Urbanska
touts simpler, greener living in USA Today
See
all stories on this topic
John
de Graaf was recently interviewed regarding time and happiness.
Jeanette Watkins sent this link:
Here's the link for everyone to listen to
John on Conscious Talk Radio (Seattle area).http://www.conscioustalk.net/guest_detail.php?guest=77
John is on as the second guest.
TAKE
BACK YOUR TIME
board
members Tom and Judy Turnipseed have a great blog.
You’ll enjoy their musings:
http://tomandjudyonablog.blogspot.com/
TAKE
BACK YOUR TIME’s non-profit sponsor, the Center for
Transformative Change at Cornell University
has a new web site.
Check it out!
www.centerfortransformativeaction.org
or
http://cresp.cornell.edu/home.php
Jeanette Watkins also sent the following:
Mark Brown is a screenwriter in
California
and has also written a series of 10 Christian books for
children. One of
them is called "Too Busy."
Here's the cover on amazon.com:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/product-description/0976269023/ref=dp_proddesc_0?ie=UTF8&n=283155&s=books
Board
member Larry Cotton recommended this website:
http://www.slowmoneyalliance.org/
HARVARD BUSINESS REVIEW blog story includes TAKE BACK YOUR TIME:
Beyond GDP - The Conversation - Harvard Business Review
By Lisa
Napoli
"As a society, we have not taken the issue of time seriously at all,"
said John de Graaf,
founder of the Take Back Your Time movement to combat the
societal "time famine" plaguing our 24/7 world: "Our focus has
been on growing more, ...
HBR.org - http://blogs.hbr.org/
TAKE
BACK YOUR TIME is mentioned in a column in THE
SHANGHAI
DAILY! China is facing a similar time and
consumption crisis:
Plague of overwork stems from ills of consumption
Shanghai Daily
Vicki
Robin and John de Graaf presented a workshop on time use at the
first U.S.. happiness
conference in Vermont
on June 1st.
http://www.newhavenindependent.org/index.php/archives/entry/happiness_blog_part_2/
Mark Engler has written an
excellent article called "Vacation: the key to economic
recovery?" It talks about Take Back Your Time Day and why a
shorter workweek could help the economy. A shorter workweek might
make your life more enjoyable, too.
Check out the post here: http://www.dissentmagazine.org/atw.php?id=153
Monique Tilford thought you would be interested in this story:
The End Of 9-To-5: When Work Time Is Anytime
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=124705801&sc=emaf
Excellent interview on Huffington Post about consumerism
mentions TAKE BACK YOUR TIME:
PriceCheck: How We Became a Culture of Consumption
Huffington Post
I've been
impressed with the Take Back Your Time campaign because
it advocates for paid child care leave, vacation, and sick
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YOUR LETTERS
I just wanted to say that I came across
your website and it's really something relevant to my life. I
happen to work for a small company as a web developer and system
administrator, and it's been made clear by my employer that
weekends and vacations are to be nothing more than "down-time",
meaning that I have to be available to answer phone calls and be
online if requested at any time. This has been the case for
almost 4 years now. In fact, the one vacation that I was able to
take visiting my wife's family in South
America was spent worrying about being out of phone
and internet range for any appreciable amount of time - not be
the best way to relax in the Amazon :) Vacation - real vacation
- is something we ALL need in fair amounts. Anyway, I'm going to
pick up your (Kindle) book and give it a read. Thanks for the
both it and the website itself.
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